The Mocking of a Trans Woman's SA and Suibaiting

Details

Incident Date / range: 2021-11-26
Key Members: Jai
Type of Harassment: Transphobia, DARVO, Suibaiting
Trigger Warnings: SA, Self-harm

Background

Jai was involved in beef with a white trans woman1, which had resulted in blocks. That same woman posted about her sexual assault, and received a rude reply from an unrelated third party attempting to minimize the assault.

Woman's post describing her assault and rude reply

In response, the woman declares in a new post that, going forward, she is blocking all bad people that interact with her.

Woman setting boundaries for interaction in the future

Synopsis

Seeing an opportunity to strike in the ongoing conflict between them (and Bill Kezos/@fossilpath), Jai crops all of the meaningful context from the woman's post setting her boundaries in a post of her own, seemingly implying that the woman would block Bill if she were truly blocking all bad people.

Jai taking a shot at a woman and her mutual over a response to her own SA

Jai received strong responses to this post, which she immediately began attempting to deflect:

Changes from using @hiphopcommunist to another account, @kuntajay
Deletes the tweet in question
Profusely apologizes to the woman directly

Jai's Apology #1

Jai's Apology #2

Jai's Apology #3

Jai's Apology #4

The apology was initially accepted (citation needed), but it was discovered that at the same time Jai was profusely apologizing as @kuntajay, she was posting very differently at the same time on the general timeline, mostly as @hiphopcommunist.

Jai's 'White Tears' Comment

Jai's 'White Martyr' Comment

The apology acceptance was rescinded, which prompted Jai to send money to the woman in the hopes that it would be enough to quell the crisis.

Woman not accepting Jai's financial apology

Sensing that the apologies weren't going to work, Jai switched strategies to outright denial, attempting to recontextualize the entire incident through a lens of anti-blackness, and begin the context collapse cycle:

Suibaiting

The woman in question has not been named and all references to her identity redacted at her request, because the resulting attention and harassment were gravely detrimental to her mental health, resulting in thoughts of self-harm. Jai, and associates linked to the PAWG Patrol, took her crisis as an opportunity to continue the conflict, resulting in a series of horrifying posts that exemplify the cruel and capricious nature of this group.